Sounds like it might be a small part teenage hormones but more likely to whatever label he winds up with...

As for forcing him to take meds ? Yeah that wont work, If he really losses it then IP might be needed whether he or you like it or not.

When your in a bad way you just check out and put your head phones on and stay in bed... Right now why cant he check out and take a break ? He sees you doing it... Maybe that bothers him ?? I dunno just food for thought...

Sometimes its best to just let a person be and not have to get up or do xyz ..