My heart goes out to you LMo.. My main concern is you and the baby.... You don't need all this added stress with your hubby. If he misses a class or test, I guess he can take the test at another time. Look, at this stage of the game, if he doesn't want to "get it together, there isn't much you can do. You cannot make him change and be responsible. You cannot make him to "not be lazy"... It is his decision.. As long as you continue to be the only responsible person in the house, looks like he will continue to take the "free ride". Seems you provide very well for him.. And I think at this point I'd be pissed at him big time too....

It surprises me at times, that someone like you that is so much "on the ball" , productive and responsible that you put up with him for 8 long stressful years. I know you love him.. But Lordy, he is going to give you wrinkles and gray hair. Sometimes I think you are holding onto a dream that somehow turned into a nightmare and you keep holding onto the "dream".