If he really losses it then IP might be needed whether he or you like it or not. I'm known not to be able to tell when it is safe to "ride it out" at home or when IP is needed. I know if he injures himself bad enough to require stitches then yeah but besides that I'm lost.

I'm trying not to bother him but when you smell you need to shower. He can only get away with that for about a day. I'm perfectly fine with him laying on the couch or using headphones in the living area but I don't want him completely isolated even if he's being an ***. Maybe I should lay off him. He has to do driver's ed or he'll get kicked out. The teacher already messages us every other day how he should have finished the course by now.