Scoffing is really not acceptable. But other than that I don’t think people are being realistic with their expectations of what this guy needs to be doing. If after only two months of dating my now husband came to my house 5 days a week and stayed over night 5 nights a week and wanted me to cuddle him in bed because that’s what he likes, I’d run for the hills and we surely would never marry. That is not realistic expectations of someone you just met.