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Originally Posted by Lemoncake
The last time I saw someone else he said it undermined our work together and that I went behind his back (which I did). Then we made the infamous deal that I wouldn't act out and he would make a plan for me when he went away. That was last year and only for a week, this time around it will be for a month plus throw an exam in between that, so maybe I feel justified in acting out, but what's so bad about trying to keep myself stable and safe?
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Nothing bad about you keeping yourself stable and safe
I fully believe that folks should be able to see however many therapists they want. Therapists have many patients, we can have many therapists too.
I don't believe in that "undermining our work together" thing - my T was fine with me seeing LGBTQ T (I never asked her permission, just did it, so I did go behind her back) and so was he.
Honestly if a T wants to talk about "loyalty" and set themselves up as "you should only see me" (vibe I get from your post) then they dang well should provide what a client NEEDS to be safe and stable.