Nothing bad about you keeping yourself stable and safe

I fully believe that folks should be able to see however many therapists they want. Therapists have many patients, we can have many therapists too.

I don't believe in that "undermining our work together" thing - my T was fine with me seeing LGBTQ T (I never asked her permission, just did it, so I did go behind her back) and so was he.

Honestly if a T wants to talk about "loyalty" and set themselves up as "you should only see me" (vibe I get from your post) then they dang well should provide what a client NEEDS to be safe and stable.