I really wish I could have her out of my life but we go back since we were kids so about 25 years. She lives right where my parents live so I have to see her. It would be ackward if I ended the "friendship"... however she is making me ill so I have to do something but I'm scared I hurt her. It's my anxieties that are egging my paranoia on regarding her. My friends said just to stop messaging her but I feel thus would be rude. I'm not very comfortable in this situation