i relate to several things you said; the alters naming them selves, freezing in stressful times, acting different in every situation ( a really handy coping mechanism) with each person, talking in my head, negative talk to me or others...

Personally, I think getting all the info I can is a good thing. I've only had one T disagree with that.

Best to you in your search for self and meaning. =)
Kiya