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Originally Posted by CantExplain
This is a no win situation at the heart of therapy.
The patient does not want to hear clear boundaries, particularly not where T wants to draw them. So she doesn't hear them, and feels betrayed later.
Added to which, a lot of therapists are not clear, even if the patient is willing to hear.
And yet therapists are always surprised when the boundaries are not understood! You'd think they would learn...
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I’m sure it’s no surprise to the masses that the
T was an “offender” in this area as well. Very unclear, passive aggressive.. i was a tool for him to learn on I suppose.
But I’m no fool. Not intended to be triggering, but he freakin triggered me all the time. On purpose ggrrrrrrr