I'm 26 and I've only had intercourse a few times, probably five or fewer.

I've only been with one person, my first and only boyfriend. That lasted a year and we went very slowly. Before him I'd had no sexual experience at all.

It's been 3 or 4 years since I've broken up with him.

I've recently put up a profile on this dating site. I've been chatting with this nice guy. He says sex is important. I told him I wasn't going to have sex unless I know I was going to be with the person a long long time. I also mentioned that I didn't get much enjoyment from sex.

He said he would make sex all about me and help me learn to enjoy it.

Am I normal in not being very sexual?

Do all guys think sex is important?