> Do all guys think sex is important?

Do you ever watch television programs about other kinds of animals? Like moose or elephant seals or herd animals of other kinds? Notice the differences between sexual behavior of males and females?

I think males of all kinds have a very strong urge to have sex. It is an evolutionary imperative! With adolescence it becomes very strong. That doesn't mean that men can't learn to be aware of the consequences for you and for themselves, and how to associate more awareness and long-term thinking into their (and your) lives, sexual and otherwise.

> He said he would make sex all about me and help me learn to enjoy it.

Just make sure it isn't really all about him...