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Originally Posted by greenplants
3. If he cuddled her so much that he started with a pillow when they parted, then why won't he cuddle me? (And No, I don't stink or anything  )
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Perhaps the answer is that he doesn’t really know you yet. After only knowing someone two months, sleeping over 5 days a week is very unusual and seems extremely fast. There hasn’t been any time for true intimacy to develop. It would be strange to spend 5 days a week seeing someone you just met, even if you slept at your own place afterwards. Do you have friends or hobbies? What did you used to do every day before you met him? Perhaps you each need some distance and an opportunity to develop intimacy at a more comfortable pace. It seems like this is a way in which you are pushing him before he’s ready and he is pulling away. If you aren’t there 24/7, the desire for gradual intimacy (including cuddling) may develop naturally over time if you are compatible.