Hi Sky,

I think maybe the law has changed, I looked up protection orders for my state and it seems like I would have to talk privately to a judge, so I will ask my T more about that.

I am worried about retaliation from her, my T says she has anti- social disorder or what they used to call psychopath, so it would be scary to make her even more agitated.

I believe she lives out of state, but her mom, my grandma lives close and now she is trying to make contact with me. She sent my daughter a birthday card with money and her cell phone number telling her to call. Well she is only 13 and hasn't had any contact with her since she was 6mo. old. This scares me because she is trying to come between my daughter and me, thinking my daughter wants contact with her. My daughter didn't even know who the card was from when it came in the mail. I wish I could have intercepted it before she saw it. I just hopes she leaves us alone. My T wants me to send the card and money back and put return to sender on the card, let my daughter keep the money, but use my money to send it back to her. He said it would take any entitlement she might feel since she thinks we accepted the gift.
I just don't know, I would rather ignore her. I guess I need to talk more about this this Thurs.
Thanks Sky for responding and your support.