I think you need to ask yourself in what way does this relationship enrich your life? Is your world all the better for having him in it?
Three months is pretty quick to have gotten yourself into a committed relationship. There are a lot of warning signs here and please please don't ignore them. Yeah, if needed it will be tough to drag yourself away but, if you apply the question above you may realise it is for the better.
Have you a relationship offline? Have you met and do you do things together? I am pretty hard lined in that I don't feel that a true relationship exists without doing so. This coming from a woman who met her partner online. I was careful not to call or think of him as a boyfriend at all until we actually met and went out regularly as a couple.
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