Me too! And I think if others just quit trying to be whatever the 'perfect' or 'appropriate' person they envision, and just be the person they are, some problems would be more manageable. I knew a guy who was so miserable, so lonely, and he just gave up on what he thought he was supposed to be. He took up cooking, was very good, entertained people and soon developed a close tight group of 'odd' friends just like him. They were very close and supportive of each other. It can work!