Me and my husband are living with my uncle. It seems every single time we point out anything he does wrong, he justifies what he did, everything we do wrong is slapped in our face, we get called "ungrateful" because he took us in, etc... And eventually we have to apologise to him for ever questioning him. Doesn't matter for things big or small or even if we are justified in being angry at him, it's always our fault.

For example beginning of July we gave him extra money to help pay off extra high bill. Instead of paying the bill he secretly just pockets our money... But of course when I actually tried to calmly bring it up with him he goes ballistic... Everything we do wrong thrown in our face again... Etc... We had to apologise to him and promise to never question him because he took us in "out of the kindness of his heart".

This is so wrong but it's probably gonna take awhile to move. My uncle wants us to move to a specific house, but he wants HIS name on the deed, he tends to be greedy, his past crimes include I'd theft of his sick mother and taking over her property.