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Originally Posted by kk307
She responded by saying that she felt that the girl needed an explanation since she witnessed everything she did and if I need time to take it.
It’d be okay, but I specifically told her mom I didn’t even want to tell my family yet.
Something just doesn’t sit right with me, so I guess I do need more time because I’m more upset now.
I guess I just needed an apology that I didn’t get. Not sure what to think and I’m driving myself crazy thinking I’m in the wrong for feeling the way I do.
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Oh, wow. Well let me tell you that her response was definitely NOT helpful from my point of view! YOU ARE NOT WRONG FEELING HOW YOU DO. You opened up to her and her response seemed cold.
You are right to expect an apology, given your friendship and history.
It sounds like all you can do at this point is make the decision to put it behind you, and work on doing so. Moving on from this will likely mean you have to accept that you’re not getting an apology. Her point of view is clearly different from yours. It’s a bummer, but it is what it is. Take it as a lesson learned for future reference. Be selective with what you open up to her about.
This whole thing alone isn’t worth throwing away a friendship over, so definitely remain open to getting it back on track.
Meanwhile, YOU ARE ENTITLED to think and feel everythaing that you’re thinking and feeling. I would certainly feel the exact same!