For sure, bring it up with your T, as they probably know more of the nuances and ins and out of your life than someone like me an unfamiliar online presense to your day to day life. Your T may be able to delve deeper with you, is what I'm trying to say.

That said, fron your post, it truly seems like a core group of friends that haven't a clue on how to be your friend, if that makes sense? I mean, they don't sound like friends in that word choices are seemingly dismissive and rather condescending. How long have you been friends with this group of individuals? Is there ever any compassion? Do any try individually to be inclusive?