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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Thanks, Lemon. That helps to hear. I keep feeling like some of this seems so minor compared to what other people have experienced (granted, I haven't shared the whole list on here...) and like I'm just overreacting to everything. But T has said repeatedly that different people react differently to the same experiences. And if I'm just wired a certain way, like from birth, then I can't really help how I react.
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I had this one old best friend, who would always tell me that I had a lot to be grateful for and there were other people worse off than me- it might have been true, but I don't feel like that ever really helped me feel better to be honest. Pain at the end of the day is still pain, trauma at the end of the day is still trauma and our individual experiences will shape how we react. I've cried of "small" stuff but at the time it was a build up of everything else.