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Originally Posted by Bill3
I am not understanding what you mean by falling into the same pattern. From what you are saying, he is neither a fixer upper nor a money grubber.
It sounds like what you are questioning is whether, given your differences in backgrounds, he can maintain your interest. My advice is to date him a while longer and see what happens. You can find out one way or the other before you decide one way of the other.
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Interesting you say that. We've gone out a couple more times and really enjoy each other's company. I think part of me is worried what people will think or "What if something better comes along?"
At any rate, we're keeping things very casual at the moment (nothing physical - not even kissing), and I am keeping my options open. No need to put all my eggs in one basket.
He REALLY is a nice guy and makes me laugh... a lot. He seems ambitious so it's really a matter of me taking my time and watching for consistency...
I haven't ruled him out... yet. I just don't trust my instincts.