Can I also say


You said you weren't in a good place when you posted the previous night, but from an outside point of view your post looks very straightforward, very truthful, very matter of fact. It says "This is what happened". (And what happened was definitely gaslighting and an outright attempt to discredit and invalidate your own perceptions of your own reality).

That post takes possession of your own experience without shaming without denying without minimizing and without deflecting. It just says what happened.

I respect that the place you were in was not a good one. It seems like you were "seeing" what happened and were able to acknowledge the wrongness of it. That in itself is huge.

To me your post is very powerful. I hope you let it stay but I very much understand if it feels like too much.

But yay you for having the courage to see and to own that for that little bit of time.

It is important!!