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Originally Posted by elisewin
At least you got your answer there SE that his care does not stop when you close the door, like you were perceiving. I think he in the wrong when he has not shown and told you that. Probably that could have avoided the whole need posting about it on Reddit. I can't believe still he did it though. I could not go on without addressing it with him. But I would first carefully think how to do it.
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I do feel this way- just exactly what you wrote. Part of me is so relieved he is not as indifferent as he pretends. Another part of me feels like he has been dishonest with me about his authority- just basically not real with me. I have stretched myself to trust in him so far beyond my comfort level. Since the date of that post ironically, he has doubled down on the neutral stance and not disclosing much. I wish he could take off the mask and we could just have a conversation that's genuine, more genuine on his side.