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Originally Posted by Tucson
I do not know what is wrong with him, but one distinct possibility is that he is actually mentally ill. He needs to get to a pdoc to be evaluated to help him get a handle on his behavior. There also is a real possibility that his behavvior will not change, particularly if he is not willing to help himself by getting help. You are not responsible for his behavior, what he says to you, and how he is feeling. He is IMO being abusive toward you. I think the reason is irrelevant. He needs to understand this instead of giving excuses and not trying to do anything about it.
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You are not responsible for him and how he feels and what he does.
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You beat me to it, luvyourself, but I wanted to give an extra shout out to these excellent points, and in particular the part about making excuses instead of trying to do anything about it. This indicates that nothing will ever get better because nothing will change. There is always an excuse handy.
Sorry to say, and it is meant in all caring.
