Aw, Hun. I consider the source. They've always been like that, even to each other. My SIL and the other women in the family decided they didn't like one of the other women that was in a similar position as I and they used to talk about her even when she was in the same house. I caught them once doing that in my house and I broke it up. I really liked Rickie and saw no reason for it. The law was laid down to them while in my house!

They put up with me until Jerry and I split up. They've never accepted me when he came back. Oh, well. It's Jerry I love, not them. LOL What I feel for my FIL is because he was a part of Jerry and if I love Jerry, I love the old geezer, right?

Besides, they're SCOTS! What else would you expect? Stiff upper lip and all that rot!