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I went through the email issue for months myself, constantly worrying I'd be too much etc and was always told I wasn't. IF you really worry about it, set your own boundaries. It's what I do. Then you don't feel like that and the worry wont be as bad, you have gone quite a while without emails before, so you can do it... it just might help to lessen the worry of being too much.
As for the not remembering, I had to giggle, my T has the worlds worst memory, seriously. He rarely remembers anything from previous sessions, it's tough but I've gotten used to it. It's hard to remind yourself but they do have a lot of other clients and their own issues etc to worry about as well, I kinda of it like with my best friend, I don't remember everything she tells me, sometimes I need a reminder but then I'm like oh ya! It doesn't mean it isn't important to HER and that I don't care, it just means, I got sidetracked. It happens. Try not to let those things get to you. Be glad he doesn't do it as often as mine.
I believe you can do the weekly in 2 weeks, you will be just fine and super proud of yourself when you do! You got this.
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Last edited by DP_2017; Jul 31, 2018 at 06:38 PM.
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