If I May Sally_j.....................

You Do about the when we first met thing ?

That is always the place of chivalry so to speak . Us guys Go out of our way daily to open doors and step aside ,, and offer a better to any woman... { I do anyway } .. In the genre of " Here you stand here " out of the rain kinda thing .

There is a feed the others aggressions too I have found >>> The push buttons thing .

At the beginning ya never thought of the What ifs ,,, there was newness ,, that was a pair of blinders for you both ....

Now ya have that space thing and best to make a rule ... One that covers all is ,,,, if we chiling ,,, no button pushing . .

That's the best I can relate ,,.