Hugs to all

Love is patient

Love is kind

I get the feeling that it isn’t particularly helpful to “advise” someone to stop sharing how they are feeling. To imply that that person “brings others down” especially if that person is very supportive of others

And that it’s not helpful to tell someone that their experience is somehow “wrong”

If I’ve ever done this to anyone I most humbly apologise. I don’t think I ever have on pc as this is mostly a safe place. Being told we are “wrong” does not make a safe place. IMHO.

But I do think that everyone does “fail” sometimes, including me, as we’re all human / bear