Well I’m no expert. I think it’s fairly normal to a certain extent and I think it’s ok to do a lot of things on my own. I don’t mind it although every now and then I think we also get into a rut at my house and need to make more effort. I also think there are things people do together that they don’t realize. Hubby and I talk quite a bit about important issues and our feelings even though I do give him plenty of personal space. I like suggestions made here about making the effort to do something the other likes. Even if it’s just little stuff here and there. I have my own social events and friends and hubby really does enjoy his time alone.