I managed to figure out (with help from a cleverer member than me aka TheLonelyChemist) how to delete visitor messages and deleted a couple, but when I delete messages it says this on my profile and it's worrying me in case I'm doing something "wrong"
The "current activity" thing is the thing that's worrying me, it says when I delete a visitor message that I'm moderating, I am not a moderator though so I don't understand why it thinks I'm moderating when I'm not a moderator
Last Activity: Today 07:15 PM
Current Activity:
Moderating
whispershadow 
Grand Member
whispershadow
misses Ebony so much Edit