Boundary changes are cruel and often make things worse. Especially with trauma clients and trust issue clients
My t has very "grey area" boundary and i love it. Long storu but a massive rupture in may led to some changes. It didn't last long in my case
However with the suddenness of his trip and the no contact during I'm fearing Tuesday things will really change i hope it's just my anxiety but only time will tell
If it changes suddenly my trust will fly out the window. I really hope yours doesn't either. This is one of the worst things in therapy they think is helpful. Sigh
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