I think this forum is a great resource, and it's helped me a lot to hear other people's experiences of therapy. But I'm just wondering whether your worry comes from hearing about things that have gone wrong in other people's therapy? It could plant seeds of anxiety about things that might not really be an issue for your therapist? Sorry if I am wrong. It's just something that occurred to me because as another poster said there is nothing you have said about your T that seems to suggest that she would suddenly change her boundaries.