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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver
Some ts use new boundaries as a way to evoke ruptures with a view to repairing them. If like me you have suffered relational trauma you will be hyper vigilant for any clues of boundary changes.
In my experience these brought on ruptures never end well or get to the repair stage!
Is your ts boundary change a fear or based on your reality?
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Can I ask did your T use boundary changes to create the rupture?! If so did the explain why they evoked a rupture to repair, because I don't really understand, I'm not sure I'd like it if I knew my T did something like that on purpose, but would be interested in the why's and the benefits?