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Originally Posted by winterblues17
Can I ask did your T use boundary changes to create the rupture?! If so did the explain why they evoked a rupture to repair, because I don't really understand, I'm not sure I'd like it if I knew my T did something like that on purpose, but would be interested in the why's and the benefits?
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Yes, I am sure she did. She wants to push through this impasse and to force me to be more relational and to work through issues and not t run away! Those were her words but not in that order.
She certainly helped to bring out my anger and in a streamer way at times it did deepen our relationship because we were both very honest with each other and I saw how much she cared for the first time. Doesn’t make it right but I think a t had to be very experienced in repairing ruptures and they need to let go of their agendas and be aware of client needs in it all!
I hope that explains some of what was happening?