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Originally Posted by Deejay14
The sheer intentional abusive behavior would make me leave in a hurry.
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Yes, I encourage if anyone is experiencing anything like this, just leave. Follow what your gut says, I wish I sure did.
It was so subtle in the beginning, especially since he told me that he gets angry a lot. At first, I really did believe it was all on me. No matter how casual the conversation was, I thought it had to be something I said why he would become furious in a split second. After doing research on gaslighters, you cannot confront them. They do not want to understand your thoughts. I thought if I tried communicating with him more and more, he would reach a moment where he would say, "ohhhh, I see what she is saying now," but it never once happened.