Thanks. Perhaps not a specific reason but more because I know my T is more physical and has a bit looser boundaries than most T:s. That she suddenly will think that she needs to tighten the boundaries so I won´t think of her as a friend or similar.
I don´t even if I have said to her I feel a warmth towards her.
Yes, I´ve come to trust her and I can show at least some emotions, I´ve cried in session several times. I know some T:s use ways to get the client to trust them and when they see trust has been established they take on a more cold approach so they slowly can take the client towards termination.
That a client suddenly shall adapt to less support. But it´s not that I actually have experienced this with my actual T, more that I´m afraid she´ll act that way.
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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty
Is there a reason that you think your therapist will suddenly change boundaries? Did your T mention changing boundaries or have you noticed subtle changes? Or is it more of a general anxiety about it? It sounds like you have developed some trust with this T and that can cause some vulnerabilities. I wonder if some of the fear is coming from the vulnerable part that trusts your T but perhaps is scared to? I don't know if that fits, it's just what came to my mind. I hope that you can not be so afraid that your T will change boundaries.
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