Thanks. It´s not me who has initiated hugs for example or the chats to and from her office so it´s not me who demands this. But I´m afraid she´ll find us getting too close and that she´ll feel the need to establish more distance although it´s her who offered hugs for example.
But it´s only in my head so far but not so far fetched as I´ve read about lots of examples of T:s who at first want to tie their clients to them and then brushes them off.
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Originally Posted by feileacan
My thoughts about this are that the changes in boundaries are not very likely, unless some borderline'ish features start to emerge. It's not entirely impossible that this will happen, considering that you seem to have repressed a lot of you for a long time. Who knows what you will find from within.
However, just based on reading about how your therapy is proceeding right now, it doesn't seem like there is any reason for your T to change the boundaries (unless something unexpected happens in her life of course, which in that case would have nothing to do with you though).
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