Thanks. Yes, you´re right about that that my worry to a large extent comes from reading about other people in therapy and also from therapy litterature. But a little part of it stems from my experiences with my very first T several years ago. She first let me send her e-mails and then suddenly refused to read them without talking to me about it first.
It hurt me rather severely and was partly why that therapy ended.
I really hope my current T isn´t "experimenting" with boundaries as I know some T:s use this method actively to create reactions from the client.
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Originally Posted by satsuma
I think this forum is a great resource, and it's helped me a lot to hear other people's experiences of therapy. But I'm just wondering whether your worry comes from hearing about things that have gone wrong in other people's therapy? It could plant seeds of anxiety about things that might not really be an issue for your therapist? Sorry if I am wrong. It's just something that occurred to me because as another poster said there is nothing you have said about your T that seems to suggest that she would suddenly change her boundaries.
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