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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
Thanks. Itīs not that my T has actually practised changing boundaries, itīs about my large fear that she some time will. Iīve read a lot about this and how hurt some clients get and how they think of their T:s as a large part of their lives and suddenly that changes when the T:s can't handle it and feel the clients have gotten too close to them.
My fear is thatīll happen to me.
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Maybe it is something you can bring up with your T. Like say something like, "I'm afraid this is going to happen" and just start off the conversation. I've had some good conversations with my old T that way and it helps me know what she is thinking because I would almost always get it wrong. Maybe that would be a help to you.