I still feel overwhelmed by the pressure of being an adult.I am 54.I am on welfare and rely on my mum when I don't have enough money.It is a chore to keep up with chores and I never have time for my creative projects.I resolve I will make time to write and do art work.Also losing weight and getting fit is important to me too,it cost more to eat healthy I know.All in all you are doing well,not having time to yourself,like spa days can be very draining and I understand how it is affecting your mental wellness.You must juggle thing or drop something so that you have regular down time.

The hardest part of being an adult is that the responsibility is all down to you and the buck stops with you.Be strong though and look at how much you do achieve whether financially independent or not your parents obviously think you are worth supporting anyway.