I don't know what to do. My sexuality has been repressed for so long, I feel like I'm going to explode. I just want to have sex...it could be with virtually anybody really. I just want someone to show interest in me. I suppose I would like it if it were someone I was the least bit attracted to so maybe there's a tiny chance I might enjoy it this time, which is what's stopping me from just answering random Craigslist ads.

I would have no clue what to say or do around a person I was attracted to. I spent years avoiding those people because I was in a relationship, therefore, I just had to take what I could get. I'm finding out now that stale crumbs are better than complete starvation.

I don't know what to do. I'm not sure how to go about random sex safely and I wouldn't know how to find anyone I was attracted to at all or had enough chemistry that would make it worth it. I rarely enjoyed having sex with someone I cared about, so I assume I'd have to be really attracted to the person to like it.

There's not much I can do on my own. Masturbation makes me feel empty and I only do it if I really physically need to. It's on the same level as a sneeze. No one wants to sneeze, but sometimes you have to.

So, for people who are shy, ugly, and apparently terrible at sex, how do you get this need met? Do you have sex with random people (and how do you do that in a safe, enjoyable way?) or are you just celibate the rest of your life?