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"t was very please that i stuck to my guns...that i didn't back down.. and i haven't" question: Is this bc your past relationship with H was HEALTHY or HARMFUL to YOU?

Then you state he "left a message,that was cheery, to a point at which he has a chance..." with you again. REALLY! Ah Manipulation. Has he done an incredible amt. of inner,psychological work that has transformed him? Someone who will NEVER again abuse you? Saying horrendous, hurtful things. He will NOW help to nurture you & help you grow to live your best life? Again same question: Would a future relationship with H be HEALTHY or HARMFUL to YOU? Please forgive my strong (but humble) opinion, I just care so very much about you, more than words could ever describe.