Info,

I spent years with a verbal abuser. Now I’m being forced to interact with one professionally. Different gender, same ball game.

It’s not so much when they actually go off, it’s the wondering when they will go off that’s getting to me. All too familiar. As is their victim-blaming.

So I spend a lot of time feeling triggered or about to be.

I hope you can help. I do not need to relive my marriage like this.

ATAT