Thanks. Yes, I also think that way that if a client hasnīt violated any obvious boundaries there should be no boundary changes but itīs hard to know what a T thinks.
Why did your ex T change boundaries? Did he/she think it was part of her therapy orientation or such?
If I see signs of boundary changes, Iīll soon meet her after a six weeks break, and if I then notice that she perhaps is more held back or something Iīll bring it up. Sometime it can just be the T is tired but if I for example showed I wanted to give her a hug after a rough session and she declined, I would really see that as a boundary change.
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Originally Posted by Cheryl27
I think boundaries should be talked about at the start and not changed unless a big voliation happened. I don't think your t would do that to you. I too often worry about my t changing bounderies because my old one used too all the time. It was very hard and still today i find i get anxiety still over bounderies . I would bring it up to your t and it probably would help ease your mind.
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