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Old Aug 03, 2018, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
The abusive personality can never take responsibility for their poor treatment towards you. They will always gaslight and project their issues onto you, blaming YOU, the victim.
When I told him about the abuse that happened to me when I was young, the first thing he said was "so you let that man get away with it." Even if it didn't involve him, I was always at fault. He would blame his mother as well. But never owned up to anything.

Yup this was a big red flag
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