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Originally Posted by Echos Myron redux
Thanks SE. I can't pretend to know how he is feeling though of course I am drawn towards speculation. Everything you say about your T feeding you to the wolves where his family are concerned get to the very crux of my pain around this.  |
It is funny bc when they do speculations about us it is "mentalizing" and case formulation, but when we speculate about them, it is the very bad no no no "mind reading". One thing is this crew here at PC is extremely perceptive especially as a group, and I think on a given day can give T's a good race in terms of imagination and thinking.
The most important thing is your pain comes through, and it's so valid. I would also be very confused and hurt by what he said.