Hi, i am divorced as my ex wife had unusual behaviour like: getting anger rages for small things wheñ things do not go her way,verbal and physical abuse which she does not remember she did when in anger rage,manupulative,no empathy for whatever we do,over hygenic ,lying,flip flop ,feels like a sea saw with her mood once good the next moment angry,self centered ,insecure though she also has positives like mature person,strong in character and will power,takes care of my needs like when i am sick, Cooking and giving hygenic food,she is very controlling but does tell me good habits to follow and live in a better way,not too much money centered,not materialistic, does show concern for me.i am in contact with her as meet her after divorce also, she says her anger will stay ànd does not want to take any treatment as she says she is perfect.her parents also deny she has any problem,i have compassion for her still in my heart even after being divorced after 10 months,should i marry her again as i always think of her(abusive relationship lasted only 3 months and abuse is not on my mind nor i am used to it but still i have compassion for my ex so that she can live a better life) ? how do i set boundaries with my ex ?Please suggest....thanks?
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