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Originally Posted by whispershadow
I read the whole post and the geographical distance is a concern I have, particularly as you say neither of you have a lot of money (I don't know what flights cost). I think video chatting to begin with (maybe on skype) is the right way to go for now while both of you try to save up some money so one can afford to travel and meet the other, if both of you decide you want to give it a try 
No judgement here though |
Thanks, I appreciate it.
Yes, even though he said the video chats wouldn't decide it for him, I definitely want to do that before meeting him just because I know it will help me be more comfortable meeting him. I didn't even mention the anxiety regarding that, which is going to be big... I have NEVER met someone from the internet IRL and I do still struggle communicating with my voice, especially face to face, so I feel like it's 100% necessary that getting used to video chatting happens before IRL meeting.