Um. I don't suggest remarrying an abusive partner. She will not change. You even mention physical abuse. Abuse typically and statistically escalates and worsens over time. You got out for a good reason. Stay the course and do not remarry. It would be a HUGE mistake. That's my suggestion. Not sure why you would even consider going back to someone who is abusive. Are you in counseling? Perhaps a therapist would help you at this time.