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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
Thanks. Yes, I also think that way that if a client hasnīt violated any obvious boundaries there should be no boundary changes but itīs hard to know what a T thinks.
Why did your ex T change boundaries? Did he/she think it was part of her therapy orientation or such?
If I see signs of boundary changes, Iīll soon meet her after a six weeks break, and if I then notice that she perhaps is more held back or something Iīll bring it up. Sometime it can just be the T is tired but if I for example showed I wanted to give her a hug after a rough session and she declined, I would really see that as a boundary change.
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My ex-t was very unethical in so many ways. I think she thought that changing boundaries on me all the time would help me become less dependent on therapy itself. It didn't help only made it far worse. I hope your t doesn't change the boundaries unless you both discuss it first and that should of been when you started with her.
