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Originally Posted by Desiree2006
Thanks for replying thirty shades. Sorry, I modified my post a little. Some people think that my bf may have got psychotic or something. So he may not be entirely at fault. But I don't know what to do.
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You are placing a lot of understanding onto him. That prevents grieving. You are a great person to care so much for him.
If I were in your shoes, I would say to myself, that unless he is able to give you what you need, you have a right to put yourself first.
If he wants to come back when healthy enough, you need to get healthy, to enable a relationship to flourish. Trust he will look after himself and you look after you.
Living, in love with someone who is not available, is way to painful. It is possible to wallow like that for years. Move forward and grieve would be my advice. You have a beautiful soul, love you and nurture you Desiree.
